Wits and Wagers: It's who you know, not what you know

Wits and Wagers is more than a great group game—it’s a metaphor for succeeding in life. The essence? It’s not what you know, it’s knowing who knows what.

For success:

  • Know who knows what
  • Reach out to those who know 
  • Share what you know 

First, if you revel in playing games and haven’t yet discovered Wits and Wagers then check it out now on Amazon. Wits and Wagers is a quickly learned, quickly played game for all ages that rewards those who are aware of the knowledge base of their fellow players far more than rewarding those who actually possess their own wealth of trivia.

In short, everyone provides a (numerical) answer for a given question—anything from a date an event occurred to the distance a field goal was kicked. Once all the answers are in, they are arranged from the lowest to the highest value and each player can bet on any answer. The players who bet on the closest answer without going over win the round.

There is no reward for being person who wrote down the closest answer (aside from patting yourself on the back and feeling foolish if you didn't bet on your own answer), only for betting on the answer that is closest. Typically, the most successful players are the ones who know the most about what their competitors know. For instance, does the question involve knowing about Canadian provinces? Well, if you’re aware that one of your players lived in Canada, then odds are her answer may be the best bet. Or if the question is on the number of companies in the Dow Jones, then who follows the ups and downs of the stock market daily? How many black keys on a standard piano? Any chance there’s a bona fide musician in the group? You get the idea.

Even if you’re not a game player, if you can be successful at Wits and Wagers you may well be successful in life. In 2013 there are new medical discoveries, environmental impacts, economical theories, political shifts, athletic achievements, parenting pronouncements, artistic feats daily—need I go on? The sheer quantity of knowledge, not to mention the exponentially greater quantity of data, available in the world today cannot be adequately described numerically.

So what’s the shortcut to possessing that knowledge? Knowing where to find it. Many may say— “hey, that’s the value of Google.” Well while Google certainly strives to return results that have been vetted by the fact they are the results most frequently referred to, it's not always straightforward. The searcher not only needs to know the best words to use in a query, but needs to have awareness of, you guessed it, who knows what. And if you know who knows what, you can more quickly pinpoint your query. You could even actually ask a knowledgeable person directly. I know, that eliminates the safety net of the anonymity of the internet, but you are likely to receive much more personalized responses.

The simple principle of Who Knows What can be applied every day. Have a new medical condition? Why not call the friend you know who was diagnosed with the same condition four years ago. Debating what to wear to on a date? Any chance you have a fashionista friend or a local business you trust with clothing advice? Where should you send your children to camp? How can you develop a communications strategy? Where to start on financial aid forms? How to set a budget, prepare for an interview, make a presentation? Know who knows. Reach out. Share what you know.

On-line Local News Demand Will Grow


I’m a news devotee—I admit it.  I keep the news on the radio while I’m working at home and get push notifications on my iPhone from both AP Mobile and the New York Times to keep up with what is going on around the globe.  I regularly watch NBC Nightly News with Brian Williams, yet I never watch local news on television. 

However, over the past year, I have found myself fascinated by, and at times relying upon, local on-line news.  I often read Patch before I look at the world headlines.
What do I find so compelling? While watching a weather reporter leaning against the wind in a blizzard in the plain states can be entertaining, finding out when my power will be restored after a local blizzard is invaluable.  Knowing how housing sales are improving nationwide helps me gauge the national economy, but seeing local house sales is far more relevant.  Hearing that Spiderman is drawing huge audiences despite its dramatic glitches getting off the ground so to speak, is interesting.  Yet knowing when an author will appear at the local bookstore is pertinent to my personal entertainment schedule.

I don’t know if AOL will be successful with their business model for Patch, but I do know that there is an important need to be filled in providing local, relevant news to individuals on-line. Being able to post our own community announcements is a valuable and low-cost service if there is a critical mass of readers.  Hard to say if critical mass has yet been reached—it depends on your community.  Six million unique Patch readers is not an insignificant number, but it’s not the right number to consider when the value is all local.  How many readers can Patch or any other local news source garner in an individual community?

Regardless of who finds a compelling business model, I hope a local news offering continues.  I can use the global news to help me decide which leaders to vote for, improve my understanding of how unrest in the Mideast will affect the economy and  influence how I can help make the world a better place.  But I will be even more influenced by the local news to let me know when I can talk with my local leaders, point me in the direction of the lowest gas prices in town and give me an outlet to recruit volunteers and supporters for my local causes.

State of Wonder Book Group Discussion


Discussion Guide for State of Wonder
By Ann Patchett

I enjoy leading book groups. When I lead, I write up a discussion guide to use. Feel free to ask your own questions or discuss your own observations or reactions in the comments section.

I have moved this discussion guide to my new blog, Group Reads which is a collection of discussion guides.  You can find a guide for this book at Group Reads: State of Wonder.

Stop by and see what other guides might interest you!

Newspaper Nostalgia


The Sunday New York Times was not a ride and toss delivery route when I was a kid.  My dad drove me around in our station wagon and I got out at each house and carried the paper up each walkway, opened each screen door and carefully nestled the paper against each front door as I quietly closed the screen. The transition to adult paper deliverers aside, a child’s paper route is left to nostalgia as we pull out our iPads to read the morning news.

My husband is reading the New York Times.  I don’t hear the crinkle of paper as he flips the page though—he has been reading the Times on his iPad for over a year now.  It’s like having a newspaper press next to our bed without all of the cacophony of machinery. And we get the late, late edition—the ones only New Yorkers used to be able to get by stepping out in the cool night air and walking around the corner to their newsstand.

When I read a story on the iPad the headline stays consistent from the start to the end of the article—no need to flip to an interior page and hunt for the altered headline the editor deemed necessary to create.  Color photos are far more numerous than in the print edition and unless the printed paper has come direct from Hogwarts, it doesn’t have any of the videos I find in my iPad version.  I have never wanted to post a comment on an article, but having the opportunity is cool. 

Yet I miss using the well-taught lessons on how to properly share a newspaper that I learned at a very young age from my dad.  We had a pecking order on who could read which section when. My dad got first choice of sections, mom second, older siblings next and eventually the comics in our local paper worked their way into my hands. Equally importantly, I learned how to refold my section and place it neatly upon the pile of sections from the Sunday paper stacked by my dad’s living room chair.

I miss the heft of the Sunday New York Times and the nesting of its sections.  I miss watching my dad flip through each paper to ensure all sections were present. I wonder what new newspaper etiquette will be passed on to the next generation as they read the morning news on lazy Sunday mornings.

Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain: Group Discussion Guide


Discussion Guide for Incognito The Secret Lives of the Brain
By David Eagleman

I enjoy leading book groups.  When I lead, I write up a discussion guide to use.  Feel free to ask your own questions or discuss your own observations or reactions in the comments section.

I have moved this discussion guide to my new blog, Group Reads, which is a collection of discussion guides.  You can find a guide for this book at Group Reads: Incognito The Secret Lives of the Brain

Stop by and see what other guides might interest you!

The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake Book Group Discussion Guide


Discussion Guide for The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake
By Aimee Bender

I enjoy leading book groups. When I lead, I write up a discussion guide to use. Feel free to ask your own questions or discuss your own observations or reactions in the comments section.

I have moved this discussion guide to my new blog, Group Reads which is a collection of discussion guides.  You can find a guide for this book at The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake.

Stop by and see what other guides might interest you!

Out of Power? Kindness Offers Warmth

Choice for driving to town this morning—shall I drive over one power line and under a second hanging precariously low or squeeze between a good size oak and a telephone pole?; Neither option seemed particularly appealing, yet the possibility of a warm coffee shop was sufficiently tantalizing to coax me through the maze of limbs, power lines and full size trees as well as contend with non-working stop lights. I had thought there was a state law that intersections with stop lights became four way stops in the event of a power outage, but it seems that drivers thought the law indicated that speed limits are raised when approaching a non-working stop light.

I chose the under/over power line option, waited patiently at two non-functioning stoplights for the high speed drivers to pass and then lingered in a parking until a spot became available.  Happily, folks seemed especially patient and appreciative for an open store, a hot coffee and yes, even for a parking spot.  Especially as the world celebrates the arrival of the 7 billionth citizen, it’s good to know that in at least in a predicament of our current magnitude, people tend to reach out in kindness rather than retaliate with malice.