Readers Discussion Guide for The Buddha in the Attic

The Buddha in the Attic
Discussion Guide for The Buddha in the Attic
By Julie Otsuka

I enjoy leading book groups. When I lead, I write up a discussion guide to use. Feel free to ask your own questions or discuss your own observations or reactions in the comments section.

I have moved this discussion guide to my new blog, Group Reads which is a collection of discussion guides.  You can find a guide for this book at Group Reads: The Buddha in the Attic .

Stop by and see what other guides might interest you!

Hummingbird Impatience

A much more obliging photographer's model
I pressed more tightly against the side of the house hoping to appear invisible to incoming hummingbirds. Wearing a green sweatshirt and shorts as my camouflage— perhaps I would look like a tree, albeit a tree with glasses holding a camera—I was nestled into a small patch of shade. I held my camera steady, not quite at eye level and heard the unmistakable sound of tiny motor droning overhead. I caught the shadow of the hummingbird on the deck in front of me and just as I lifted my camera, the shadow darted away. This was going to be more difficult than I anticipated.

We had become enamored with hummingbirds since observing them enjoying sugar water from a friend’s hummingbird feeder. So enamored in fact, that the next day I ordered one myself and as soon as it arrived suctioned it to the window, filled it homemade nectar and sat down to await the arrival of flocks of hummingbirds.

I waited. Nothing. My husband and I waited together. Nothing.

“Maybe they will feed in the morning,” my husband offered hopefully.

That night he read late into the night, googling all he could find on the Internet about hummingbirds. The red of the feeder would attract them. They migrated from New England to points south anywhere from July to September. They needed to put on weight before starting their long flight and our feeder wouldn’t delay beginning their journey.
When I awoke, the first words I heard were, “maybe they have already migrated.”
All that day we watched out the window, hoping one straggler would still venture by our feeder. Just when our vigilance was beginning to wane we heard a loud buzzing overhead and watched in awe as a hummingbird first hovered above, then set down upon our feeder and dipped in his beak for a long drink of homemade nectar.

I was hooked and instantly sought to catch the hummingbird in a photograph. The first few shots through the window were easy to take, but sadly, the dirt encrusted on my windowpane was far more visible than the tiny bird hovering through the glass. I tried different times of day with the sun at different angles, but none captured the whimsy of the hummingbird.

Thus I began sitting outside, near the feeder, as even with a zoom lens the tiny stature of the bird required me to be quite close if I had any chance of it filling my camera frame. Not surprisingly the hummingbirds were keenly aware of my presence every time I so much as twitched.

 I watched as the sunlight slowly started sliding towards my shady territory. Soon my foot was bathed in sun and the light and warmth continued to spread up my leg and my torso, until I wished I had chosen something other than a heavy sweatshirt as camouflage. I felt large beads of sweat form on my back, yet still I waited quietly for the return of my petite funny friend. Whenever I heard the loud drone above, I froze in place, hardly breathing. The hummingbird would alight on the feeder and just as I raised my camera, would zoom away as quickly as it had arrived.

I tried holding my camera in place, but between its heft and the heat of the sun I soon grew impatient and set it down in my lap. As if the hummingbird knew I was no longer at the ready, he darted in for a quick sip and darted away in the time it took me to lift my camera to eye level. After what felt like an hour sweating in the sun, but was likely no more than 15 minutes, I decided to create a photo memory. The next time the hummingbird came by, I didn’t move a muscle, just studied his feathers and beak and his red collar and created my own mental image of my tiny, feathered friend.

Ice Cream and A Show

Nothing like a steamy holiday to bring out boaters by the dozens to slowly crawl up a winding river and then get packed into a small lock to be lifted up to higher water.  Most experienced boaters wisely choose cooler or less crowded days to take an outing through the lock, but it’s the inexperienced boaters that provide the most entertainment, which is why we traveled by car to watch the lock traffic this sweltering Fourth of July.  

We assured our guest that people-watching at the lock was a fun summertime treat, right up there with the homemade ice cream stand which we visited as part of our excursion. Invariably we would see teenage girls sunbathing in their bikinis, eyes closed and apparently ear-lids closed too as they remained motionless and oblivious to their parents’ requests to “fend off from that boat in front!”  Or we would watch as new boat drivers tried to maneuver into the lock without scratching along the lock door or any of the dozen boats packed in around them.  Once a coast guard enforcement officer was on hand and was quick to ticket boaters with two children who weren’t wearing life jackets even as they were dangling their fingers over the edge of the boat between the fiberglass hull and cement wall of the lock.  “But they were wearing them just 5 minutes ago”, the mother retorted.  “We only took the life jackets off so the kids could have their snack.”  No comment.

Today, however, was our most eventful lock excursion to date.  We stepped out of our car just as over a dozen boats were about to enter the lock.  We watched with interest as each attempted with varying degrees of success to follow the lockmaster’s directions and move into place without knocking into any other boater or cement wall.
Surprisingly everyone on each boat seemed to be helping to keep their boats from banging into one another despite the best efforts of the drivers to play bumper boats.  One boat had a crew of three deaf men 'shouting' at one another and offering opposing opinions on where to come to rest in the lock.  The lockmaster motioned to the middle of the lock and the deaf driver deftly directed his boat between two larger vessels.

As the lock filled we enjoyed watching two boaters trading a cookie for a beer across boats— the swappers hadn't met each other prior, just sharing what they had in good humor.  When the lock filled and the lock door swung open we anticipated an uneventful departure of boats through the lock gate.

The boats slowly start pulling out, most not quite slowly enough, and one was getting caught in the back current outside the lock and slowed judiciously.  Unfortunately the driver just behind the slowing craft, was moving forward at a steady clip.  Her male companion sat with his legs dangling over the bow ready to fend off of the decelerating boat.  However, the boat driver decided that the best way to avoid the boat in front would by throwing her boat in reverse hard and fast without consideration for any one or any boat that might be behind—and let it be noted that there were several boats behind.  Our shouts of “Stop!” went unnoticed.  As any student of physics will know, a strong force applied in reverse while a man sits on the edge of a wet boat deck will quickly unseat the startled man. The "splash" of her companion hitting the water only just preceded the loud 'Crunch, Scri--i-i-itch" of her engine digging into the bow of the motorboat behind her.

The lockmaster remained serene and calmly suggested they move on past the next bridge before stopping to discuss the poor timing of their boats meeting. 

Meanwhile while we had suggested the driver stop reversing, we had not suggested she move forward, which she did anyhow and nearly ran over her companion.  Fortunately he was able to quickly grab on to the bow of their boat and pull himself back on deck before he was run over. 


Yow za!  What excitement.  I doubt we’ll be able to match the excitement of a simultaneous crash and passenger ejection at the lock any time soon.

Gone Girl Book Group Discussion Guide


Discussion Guide for Gone Girl
By Gillian Flynn

I enjoy leading book groups. When I lead, I write up a discussion guide to use. Feel free to ask your own questions or discuss your own observations or reactions in the comments section.

I have moved this discussion guide to my new blog, Group Reads which is a collection of discussion guides.  You can find a guide for this book at Group Reads: Gone Girl.

Stop by and see what other guides might interest you!

Flight Behavior Book Group Discussion


Discussion Guide for Flight Behavior
By Barbara Kingsolver

I enjoy leading book groups. When I lead, I write up a discussion guide to use. Warning: spoilers within! Read after you have finished the book.

All page numbers refer to hardcover HarperCollins First Edition, 2012

I now have a collection of discussion guides all brought together in one blog:  Group Reads: Flight Behavior  Stop by and see what other guides might interest you!

Winter Art


Snow Laden Tree
Waiting for footprints
Morning by the street


Sun begins its work
Snow sculptures, icicles dripping from rooftops, branches laden with snow—winter art’s appeal stems from its fleeting nature.  

The trees stood as a blank canvas as the snow began to quietly fall last night.  Through the darkness, each snowflake fell upon the landscape, some balancing carefully on slender branches, others covering rocks and roots. 

The installation lasted no more than several hours after dawn. A brief early morning viewing until the sun's rays dissolved the snow’s delicate grip and the showing closed, captured only in photos and in memory.

Pressing Replay

Not surprisingly someone at Wired Magazine had the same question I did in wondering why so many cars in Russia are driving around with dashboard cams. Equally not surprisingly, they haven’t yet investigated the origin of the Sharpies on the crippled February Carnival Cruise.

Yet even in this story I was drawn to the story behind the phenomena. I realize that by offering you the link to the Wired story I might be an accessory to your wasting time watching horrific car crash videos. Why are these on-line and why did I follow the link and watch two of them?

I selected two from YouTube, which polices its content to some extent, as I didn’t want to view the most horrific crashes. Yet there are sites that don’t police content. There viewers are drawn to watch supposedly much more violent videos which I presume include fatal crashes.

What draws us to watch? Do we like being on the edge of our seats knowing a horrific incident is impending? Is watching an evolutionary instinct? Though for what benefit? As replaying the past is barely a blip in the timescale of human evolution it’s hard to see the role this fascination could possibly have played in human evolution. Or then again is it? Human brains clearly have the capacity to replay the past as happens tragically in those suffering from PTSD. I suppose there exists volumes of research on the Internet on the why and wherefore of the human brain replaying horrific events—maybe that’s a search for another day.

Sharpies and Dashboard Cameras


Where did the Carnival Cruise passengers get Sharpies to write on their sheets?  Does everyone in Russia drive around with a camera on their car dashboards? 

These are the questions that bubble up as I try to focus on the news of the day.  Inevitably I completely miss the reporter announcing when and where the cruise ship will dock as I watch the video footage of the ship with large handmade signs hanging from cabin balconies.  Large white sheets I quickly realize are easy to come by as a blank canvas.  But what did they write with?  I doubt I could make large dark bubble letters with the pens and pencils that fall to the depths of my travel bag.  Did Carnival hand out Sharpies just for this purpose?

Similarly, as I watch amazed at the meteor.  It was a meteor until it hit the ground right? What an abrupt way to get a name change!   In any case, as I watched the amazing footage of the meteor glowing across the sky, I quickly wondered, who are all these people driving around with cameras on in their cars?  Are these all police officers?  Or do citizens commonly run video cameras on their dashboards in Russia? 

So let me know—did you hand out all those Sharpies?

MOOC Indulgence


Week 11 of my MOOCs indulgence—yes it is now an indulgence, I am addicted to education.  The other night, my family entered the darkened kitchen where I sat focused on a talking head on the computer screen in front of me while I simultaneously typed in trial bits of code. 

“Are we having dinner tonight mom?”

Really?  Was it time for dinner already?  But I had just sat down after lunch to watch a quick lecture and get caught up on one class.  I felt transported back to college days when I stayed up all night coding for the thrill of getting a program to compile and if I were lucky to actually spit out the correct answers, all formatted correctly before dawn broke.  Had I really returned to that lifestyle?  Clearly my focus on Coursera (my MOOC of choice at the moment) had gone too far. 

After throwing together dinner of some sort, I returned to my on-line class.  I went to the home page and looked at the big green button beckoning “Go to class”.  In small type, nearly hidden below it, I read ‘Un-enroll’.  I hovered my cursor over “Go to class”, then with a sigh, moved to “Un-enroll” and clicked.  A big red button filled my vision as if shouting at me, no don’t un-enroll, you’ll lose everything!  I calmly confirmed my exit, my retreat, my departure; with a sigh I un-enrolled.

I returned to my course listing and smiled—4 big green “Go to class” buttons remained—still plenty of learning to do, quizzes to take, discussion forums to participate in.  My on-line learning appetite is not quite curbed, I’ll just focus on less consuming courses.  
MOOCs. Screen-side chat. Discussion forums.

These new vocabulary words are starting to roll off my tongue almost as fluently as “gag me with a spoon”, mixer, diag and Rocky Horror Picture Show did when I attended a brick and mortar school several decades back. Somehow though, the focus on studying isn’t coming quite as quickly.

Graduate degree in hand, several careers and several kids along, I have returned to college—well at least to college classes—in the new world of MOOC: Massive Open Online Courses. Returning to class in this new medium I am finding it hard to decipher between what’s different due to the medium (being on-line) and what’s just different about higher education in general from the 1980s.

For one, I am stumped by the term ‘virtual’ that so many people seem to apply to MOOCs. There is very little virtual about the classes I am taking. Real professors using actual videos teach real content to me and other physical classmates. Many of the discussion threads are high caliber, adding new insight and perspectives from around the world along plenty of humor and support when the coursework gets hard. We may not all be sharing the same dining experience or trudging through the same snow drifts or city traffic to school, but we definitely are learning from one another and our professor in a shared experience.

My online courses have come with unexpected perks. I immediately found the benefit of being able to speed up lectures— watching a professor speak at 2x the standard rate was so much more energetic that when I start watching again at a normal rate I feel like the prof was talking through Jell-O. Additionally, there’s no drop/add deadline. Thinking the course work wouldn’t really be all that time-consuming (Ha, was I ever wrong about that!) I signed up for far more courses than I could possibly manage without becoming a full time student again. No problem—I easily and painlessly unenrolled from several. And while the professors don’t have office hours and they kindly request that students refrain from sending them emails, one course I’m taking offers weekly screen-side chats. This week students from Mexico, Canada, China, Peru and the United States all posed questions directly to the profs who, within the constraints of band-width, more or less answered all queries thoroughly.

I have a feeling that the biggest downside will be the limitless menu of class options. So far I’ve started four courses with four very disparate goals. I doubt I’ll be able to complete all four and still maintain a reasonable life balance. I look forward to seeing how my experiment works out. How are your on-line courses working for you or how well you are working in them? And if you haven’t tried one yet, there are many options. I’m taking my courses all from Coursera as I find it easier to get to know and work within a common interface. Scroll through the options today. The courses are a lot like potato chips—bet you can’t select just one.

Wits and Wagers: It's who you know, not what you know

Wits and Wagers is more than a great group game—it’s a metaphor for succeeding in life. The essence? It’s not what you know, it’s knowing who knows what.

For success:

  • Know who knows what
  • Reach out to those who know 
  • Share what you know 

First, if you revel in playing games and haven’t yet discovered Wits and Wagers then check it out now on Amazon. Wits and Wagers is a quickly learned, quickly played game for all ages that rewards those who are aware of the knowledge base of their fellow players far more than rewarding those who actually possess their own wealth of trivia.

In short, everyone provides a (numerical) answer for a given question—anything from a date an event occurred to the distance a field goal was kicked. Once all the answers are in, they are arranged from the lowest to the highest value and each player can bet on any answer. The players who bet on the closest answer without going over win the round.

There is no reward for being person who wrote down the closest answer (aside from patting yourself on the back and feeling foolish if you didn't bet on your own answer), only for betting on the answer that is closest. Typically, the most successful players are the ones who know the most about what their competitors know. For instance, does the question involve knowing about Canadian provinces? Well, if you’re aware that one of your players lived in Canada, then odds are her answer may be the best bet. Or if the question is on the number of companies in the Dow Jones, then who follows the ups and downs of the stock market daily? How many black keys on a standard piano? Any chance there’s a bona fide musician in the group? You get the idea.

Even if you’re not a game player, if you can be successful at Wits and Wagers you may well be successful in life. In 2013 there are new medical discoveries, environmental impacts, economical theories, political shifts, athletic achievements, parenting pronouncements, artistic feats daily—need I go on? The sheer quantity of knowledge, not to mention the exponentially greater quantity of data, available in the world today cannot be adequately described numerically.

So what’s the shortcut to possessing that knowledge? Knowing where to find it. Many may say— “hey, that’s the value of Google.” Well while Google certainly strives to return results that have been vetted by the fact they are the results most frequently referred to, it's not always straightforward. The searcher not only needs to know the best words to use in a query, but needs to have awareness of, you guessed it, who knows what. And if you know who knows what, you can more quickly pinpoint your query. You could even actually ask a knowledgeable person directly. I know, that eliminates the safety net of the anonymity of the internet, but you are likely to receive much more personalized responses.

The simple principle of Who Knows What can be applied every day. Have a new medical condition? Why not call the friend you know who was diagnosed with the same condition four years ago. Debating what to wear to on a date? Any chance you have a fashionista friend or a local business you trust with clothing advice? Where should you send your children to camp? How can you develop a communications strategy? Where to start on financial aid forms? How to set a budget, prepare for an interview, make a presentation? Know who knows. Reach out. Share what you know.